🌿 Be Filial | 孝顺父母

Filial Piety: Gods and goddesses favor those who are filial to their parents.

Being filial means caring for our parents with love, respect, and gratitude.
It means ensuring their basic needs are met — such as food, comfort, health care, and a sense of security.

Spend time with them.Listen to them. Speak to them kindly.Support them in their daily lives.Accompany them to medical appointments and encourage them in the things they enjoy.

Small gestures matter.Send them a message or a WhatsApp greeting like:
“You are awesome!”“I love you.” “You are the best parent!”

You do not need a special occasion to show filial piety. Praise them and thank them often. Buy them a meal, give them a small gift, or send flowers simply to express your love and gratitude.

- When you blame them for not loving you enough, and hated the corporal punishment you received as a child, remember:

In those olden days, our principals and teachers used the cane as discipline. It was acceptable and believed to make you a better person. Our parents simply followed what society perceived as the right way — they believed they were doing right.

Remember that our parents are human too. They may have had broken dreams, limited education, or fewer opportunities. They may also have faced disappointments, loneliness, or even poverty.Yet despite these struggles, they still did their best to raise us in the way they believed was right and good.

Just as they forgave our mistakes and endured the inconveniences, frustrations, challenges, and financial worries while we were growing up, we too can choose to forgive their imperfections, be patient with them, appreciate their sacrifices, and repay their kindness many times over.

If your parents were difficult or harsh, remember that someone else may once have been harsh to them when they were young, vulnerable, or helpless.
Even so, they still managed to raise you. Have compassion and choose love. Don’t wait, text them now with a greeting.

When one eagerly prays to gods above for our own salvation, wealth, and happiness,

Pray for your parents to be happy and healthy.

Pray to the gods/goddesses to give them the best blessings（最好的祝福）.

Pray that, if allowed, you are willing to carry some of their pain and suffering.

Pray to Heaven to allow your parents to receive and share your merits.

When you want to rope in your parents' savings and their time to do your business and help with your money — tell yourself:

STOP!!  I should be setting aside money for them instead

The only exception is when there have been criminal acts. In such situations, speak up, report to authority, you must protect yourself and your other family members.

As for your siblings -a simple trick to get along in harmony - always talk to them with  courtesy and good manners, praise them, thank them and tell them you support them in what they want to do! Try it! You will be surprised at the great outcome! 

🌿 尽孝道 | 孝顺父母

孝顺父母：神明眷顾孝顺之人。
孝，意味着以爱、尊重与感恩之心照顾父母。
要确保他们的基本需求得到满足——如饮食、舒适、医疗与安全感。

多陪伴他们，倾听他们，温柔地与他们说话。
在日常生活中支持他们，陪他们看医生，鼓励他们做自己喜欢的事情。

小小的举动也很重要：
发一条信息或 WhatsApp 问候：
“你真棒！”“我爱你 ❤️”“你是最好的父母！”

不需要特别的日子才表达孝心。
常常赞美他们、感谢他们。
请他们吃一顿饭，送个小礼物，或一束花，都是表达爱与感恩的方式。

当你埋怨他们不够爱你，或对小时候被体罚感到不满时，请记住：
在过去的年代，老师与校长以体罚作为纪律方式，这是当时社会普遍认可的教育方式。父母只是依循当时的社会观念，他们认为那是对的。

要记得，父母也是普通人。
他们也许曾有破碎的梦想、有限的教育或较少的机会；
他们也可能经历过失望、孤独，甚至贫困。
但即使如此，他们依然尽力用他们认为正确的方式把你养大。

正如他们曾包容你的错误，忍受你成长中的不便、烦恼、挑战与经济压力，
我们也可以选择原谅他们的不完美，对他们多一点耐心，感恩他们的付出，并加倍回报他们的恩情。

如果你的父母曾经严厉，请记住——
也许在他们年幼、脆弱、无助的时候，也曾被他人如此对待。
即便如此，他们仍然把你养大。
请怀抱慈悲，选择爱。不要等待，现在就发一条问候给他们。

当你向神明祈求自己的平安、财富与幸福时，
也请为父母祈祷：
🙏 祈愿父母平安健康
🙏 祈请神明赐予他们最好的祝福
🙏 若有可能，愿意为他们分担一些痛苦与辛劳
🙏 祈求上天让父母分享你的功德与福报

当你想动用父母的储蓄或时间来帮助你的事业时，请提醒自己：
停止！我应该为他们存钱，而不是依赖他们。

唯一的例外是涉及犯罪行为的情况。
此时必须勇敢发声，向有关当局报案，保护自己与家人。

至于兄弟姐妹——

一个简单相处之道：

始终以礼相待，常赞美、常感谢，并表达你对他们的支持。

试试看！你会惊讶于关系的改变与美好结果。 ✨

I am lost and unhappy.
Why do we exist on this earth?
What is our purpose?

We exist on this earth to help others.

In family, at work, in life.

We help our parents,
our children,
our siblings.

Sometimes we even cross their boundaries
and annoy them.

“Hello, please respect me!” said one of your family members.
"Sorry I will support whatever you do and not force my "help" on you"  You said.

We help our bosses at work,
our colleagues,
our customers / clients.

If we are businessmen,
we prosper when we help our customers
solve their problems.

In life,
we help our friends,
strangers,
animals,
save the planet.

Some people even help spirits…

The holy spirits above — regardless of religion —
all help human beings.

Jesus Christ,
Gautama Buddha,
deities, Hindu gods…

So the answer to why we exist

is to help each other.

So if you feel lost,
go out and find your cause.

It can be shelters,
houses of gods,
old folks’ homes…

Help someone today.

Speak kindly to others.

One good deed a day
can brighten your day.

Help… with boundaries.

Help others when they need it.
If they don’t see the need, don’t force it.

Help when people ask you.

If someone by the roadside asks for money,
give if you can.
Don’t overthink.
Thank them… for giving you a chance to help.

Give, and you shall receive.
A person who can give
is already blessed.

Help others at work.
Don’t say, “This is not my duty.”

When you help others,
time flies.

You gain experience.
You gain knowledge.
You see the bigger picture.

These are skills
you carry with you forever.

Don’t help
when someone takes you for granted.

Say it clearly,
and firmly:

“I’m willing to help,
but please don’t take me for granted.”

Speak kind words.
It’s the easiest good deed.

Praise sincerely.
Make someone feel good today.

Don’t give advice or criticism
when it’s not needed.

Speak kindly, with courtesy,
especially to your family.

Respect them.
Support their plans.

Surround yourself
with good people.

People who are positive,
helpful, and kind.

And you will realise…

you are already
a truly blessed person.

🌿Just for You — Cultivating Virtues for a Blessed Life

Forgive others and let go. When you forgive, you free yourself from pain. Holding on to grudges only traps you in suffering—so choose self-love and move forward wisely. Sometimes pain is what pushes us toward better people, better choices, and a better life.

We exist not just for ourselves, but to help others. When you give, support, and care for others, you will discover a deep sense of fulfillment that nothing else can replace. When you feel unfortunate, go out, find a cause that speaks to you, and serve in places that need care—such as orphanages, elderly homes, animal shelters, or houses of worship. In giving to others, your sorrow will gradually be replaced by the peace and joy you bring to others’ lives.

Self-love and self-care are important too. Forgive yourself, be gentle with yourself, and allow yourself time to rest, heal and grow.

Focus on your growth. Improve yourself—become stronger, wiser, and more capable. Stay away from gossip,  toxic and negative people. You choose to learn from the good in others, you can choose to speak kindly despite your hurt because talking bad about another person or place only reminds us of more pain. And lend your support to those who are kind and sincere.

Upon saying that, no one is 100% good—every human has both good and bad traits.
When we are with people, observe and learn from their good, and learn what not to do from their bad. Also evaluate the overall person, and choose your company wisely—
because you become who you surround yourself with.

Your potential is limitless. As you grow and cultivate good virtues, you will naturally attract better opportunities and better people.

✨ Let go, grow, do good—and your path will slowly open into a more meaningful and blessed life.

学会原谅他人，并懂得放下。当你选择原谅，其实是在释放自己，脱离痛苦。执着于怨恨只会让自己困在痛苦之中——不如选择爱自己，理性地向前走。有时候，正是这些痛苦，推动我们走向更好的人、更好的选择，以及更好的人生。

我们来到这个世界，不只是为了自己，也为了帮助他人。当你付出、支持与关怀他人时，你会体会到一种任何事物都无法取代的深层满足感。

当你觉得自己不幸时，走出去，找到一个与你有共鸣的方向，并到需要帮助的地方付出——如孤儿院、老人院、动物收容所或宗教场所。在帮助他人的过程中，你的忧伤会逐渐被你带给他人的平静与喜悦所取代。

自爱与自我照顾同样重要。学会原谅自己，善待自己，给自己时间去休息、疗愈与成长。

把重心放在自我成长上。提升自己，让自己变得更强大、更有智慧、更有能力。远离是非、负面与有毒的人。选择向他人的优点学习，即使内心受伤，也选择以善意说话，因为说他人的坏话只会让自己停留在痛苦之中。同时，也要支持那些善良真诚的人。

话虽如此，没有人是100%完美的——每个人都有优点与缺点。
当我们与他人相处时，要观察并学习他们的优点，也要从他们的缺点中学会什么不该做。同时也要整体评估一个人，并谨慎选择与你同行的人——
因为你最终会成为你所处环境与人群的样子。

你的潜能是无限的。当你不断成长、修德行善，你自然会吸引更好的机会与更好的人。

✨ 放下、成长、行善——你的人生之路，将慢慢展开，走向更有意义与更有福报的人生。

Cultivate the Heart (with Self-Discipline):

Our thoughts—notice greed, anger, resentment, pride, & other negative feelings and gently replace them with positivity, kindness, and empathy for others so that we become calmer, peaceful and more loving.  One can also pray for guidance & strength in temples, while working on letting go of negative feelings.

修心（以自律为本）：

觉察自己的念头——留意贪、嗔、怨、傲慢等负面情绪，并温和地以正向、善意与同理心去转化它们，使自己变得更加平静、安宁与有爱。也可以到寺庙祈求指引与力量，同时练习放下负面情绪，培养内在的平和与智慧。

Cultivate Speech: (Speak with Wisdom. Live with Virtue.)
Speak with truth, tact, gentleness, and compassion every day! . Be mindful of others’ feelings, and avoid gossip, harsh words, or unnecessary criticism. 👉 Good manners are important- Be courteous to everyone—not just outsiders, but especially to your family. It brings harmony and peace that some families never get.
Refrain from unnecessary corrections on others unless they seek your advice. However, when something is clearly harmful, carries serious consequences, or involves wrongdoing or crime, speak up —for justice and for the greater good.

• Ask yourself:
  If I lived their life—same environment, same upbringing, same culture, same education, and the same pressures etc—would I still be so quick to judge or correct them?  

• Before commenting on others, ask yourself: Am I able or willing to do what they are doing?  Choose understanding, offering guidance when appropriate. 

- Use encouragement and praise to guide people and children toward good behavior and meaningful growth.

- Before pointing fingers at others, always point to yourself first—reflect and examine your own actions.

🌿 修口德｜以智慧说话，以德行做人

每天以真实、得体、温和与慈悲之心说话！
多体谅他人的感受，避免闲言闲语、刻薄之言或不必要的批评。
👉 礼貌很重要——对所有人都应有礼，不只是对外人，更要对家人。
这能带来许多家庭从未拥有过的和谐与安宁。

除非他人主动寻求你的意见，否则尽量避免随意纠正他人。
但当事情明显有害、后果严重，或涉及不当行为甚至犯罪时，必须挺身而出——为正义与大众利益发声。

请常常问自己：
如果我活在他们的处境——同样的环境、成长背景、文化、教育与压力——
我还会这么快去评判或指正他们吗？

在评论他人之前，也请先问自己：
我是否有能力或愿意做到他们正在做的事？
选择理解他人，在适当的时候给予引导与支持。

• 用鼓励与赞美，引导他人和孩子走向良好的行为与有意义的成长

• 在指责别人之前，先指向自己——反思并检视自己的言行

Cultivate Good Deeds: You can help others at home/work/outside  every day!  And this brings purpose and meaning to life.

Do good with sincerity—sometimes openly to inspire, and sometimes quietly without seeking recognition. Both carry equal value.When you cultivate virtue and do good consistently, you create positive karma. Over time, it brings peace, reduces misfortune, and benefits both yourself and others.Have the wisdom to distance yourself from harmful or selfish behaviors, and to support behaviors and those who strive to do good.

When you see someone on the street asking for money or food, don’t be quick to think, “He might be lying,” or “He should get a job.” “If I help one, others will come asking too.” Remember — no one wants to be a beggar. If you can help, then please help. Don’t judge, and don’t look for excuses not to do good. Be thankful  that you have been offered an opportunity to do good. It means you’re blessed enough to share. This is what the gods teach us: to have a generous heart, to give with joy, and to understand that real happiness comes from giving. And if the person you help isn’t truly poor, still feel compassion —because someone who asks without need is actually poor in spirit. You, on the other hand, are rich in kindness and gratitude.

🌸 Be a person with a big heart and inner richness

修善（行善积德）：

每天都可以在家中、工作中或社会上帮助他人，这能让人生更有意义与价值。以真诚之心行善——有时公开分享以启发他人，有时默默付出不求回报，两者同样可贵。当你持续修德行善，便是在累积善业与福报。久而久之，能带来内心的平安，减少不顺，并利益自己与他人。要有智慧远离有害或自私的行为，同时支持那些努力行善的人。

当你在街上看到有人向你讨钱或讨食时，不要急着想：
“他可能在骗人。”
“他应该去找工作。”
“如果我帮了一个，其他人也会来找我。”

请记住——没有人愿意当乞丐。
如果你有能力帮助，请尽量伸出援手。

不要评判，也不要为不行善找借口。
要心存感恩，因为这是一个让你行善的机会，说明你有福气可以给予他人。

这正是神明教导我们的：
要有一颗慷慨的心，乐于布施，明白真正的快乐来自于付出。

即使你帮助的人并非真正贫困，也请保持慈悲——
因为一个在不需要时仍开口求助的人，其实是“心灵的贫者”。
而你，是富有善心与感恩之人。

🌸 做一个心胸宽广、内心富足的人

🌿 How to Make People Like You More!

😊 Smile often and bring warmth
A sincere smile is powerful and makes people feel comfortable around you.

🙏 Be polite and respectful
Use words like “please,” “thank you,” “excuse me,” and “may I”—and mean them.

💬 Speak good, avoid gossip
Praise more, criticize less. Don’t talk behind others’ backs.

🤝 Put yourself in others’ shoes
Understand people from their perspective—it builds stronger connections.

🎧 Listen more than you speak
Being heard makes people feel valued and respected.

🌸 Be genuine and sincere
People can feel authenticity—realness attracts trust.

💖 Be helpful and encouraging
Support others, uplift them—kindness draws people closer to you.

😌 Manage your emotions
Don’t spread negativity—people feel safe around calm and positive energy.

📚 Keep improving yourself
Strong people skills lead to better relationships and success in life.

🗣 Speak with honesty and tact
Be truthful, but express yourself with care and wisdom—so you inspire, not hurt.

✨ Remember: Being liked isn’t about pleasing others—it’s about becoming a warm, respectful, and virtuous person.

🌿 如何让别人更喜欢你！

😊 常带笑容，给人温暖与舒服的感觉
一个真诚的微笑，比任何话语都更有力量。

🙏 有礼貌、有分寸
常说“请”“谢谢”“不好意思”“可以吗”，让人感到被尊重。

💬 说好话，不说是非
多赞美、少批评，不背后议论他人，自然更受欢迎。

🤝 将心比心，懂得体谅
站在对方的角度思考，理解别人，更容易建立好关系。

🎧 多听少说，让别人感到被重视
认真聆听，是最高级的尊重。

🌸 真诚待人，不做作不虚伪
人们能感受到你的真心，真诚最打动人。

💖 乐于帮助他人，给予支持与鼓励
一个愿意付出的人，走到哪里都受欢迎。

😌 控制情绪，不把负能量带给别人
稳定的情绪，让人安心靠近你。

📚 提升自己，培养良好人际能力
懂人性、会沟通，自然人缘越来越好。

🗣 诚实说话，也要有分寸与智慧
以真诚为本，但用温和、得体的方式表达，启发他人，而不是伤害他人。

✨ 记住：让人喜欢你，不是讨好，而是成为一个温暖、有修养、有德行的人。

🌿 DO YOU KNOW?

In ancient times, the leaders—scholars, officials, generals—become  immortals / celestial beings.

Why?
Because they used their position to:
👉 uplift lives
👉 protect the people
👉 create lasting good

🌟 Do You Qualify for Such a Legacy? Do the checklist below! 

👥 The People You Lead
Your employees, customers, citizens—or even your own children:
👉 Do they understand what virtue is?
👉 Do they see it practiced through your actions?

Are they living better lives because of you—
or feeling suffocated by stress and rising costs?

💖 Compassion in Your Leadership
Is there kindness in your systems and decisions?

🐾 Do you show compassion for animals?
🌱 Do you protect the environment?

Or is everything driven only by profit and growth?

🌍 Your Impact on the Future
Your leadership goes beyond today.

👉 Are you leaving behind goodness for future generations?
👉 Are you using your position to support meaningful causes?

⚖️ The True Measure of Leadership
Leadership is not just about KPIs or results on paper—

👉 It is about how many lives are truly improved because of you.

Be honest:
👉 How many lives have you helped?
👉 Is it happening daily?
(Exclude yourself and your own family.)

🌿 Final Question

✨ Are you creating a life—and a legacy—
that others will be grateful for?

✨ Does it align with Heaven’s values—
compassion, love, and inclusiveness for all?

⚠️ A Warning on Meditation & Spiritual Practices

Deep meditation—especially spiritual or advanced forms—is not suitable for everyone.
It can lead to confusion, emotional imbalance, or even serious mental distress.

Experiences during deep practice can sometimes feel very real and convincing.
You may feel guided, special, or “chosen.”
But not every experience should be taken at face value—
discernment is important.

Even if you are a powerful person with status or fame or wealth today, it does not mean you can skip the path.
True spiritual growth begins from the ground up—
roll up your sleeves, serve humbly, sweep the floor, support others.

Do not chase status or spiritual recognition.
If there is a calling, it will come naturally—
or it may not come at all.

Serving in temples or houses of the divine is a privilege—
and must never be taken lightly.
Responsibility is real, and integrity matters.

Chanting and spiritual practices were traditionally guided by trained practitioners,
and are meant to benefit others—not driven by personal gain.

Deities, Buddhas, Bodhisattvas, angels—
represent compassion and service to all beings.

Thus, rituals, prayers, and chants are best directed outward—
to uplift, to bless, and to help others.

👉 Think carefully before using spiritual practices to elevate yourself
The divine expects you to scoop the rice into others’ bowls, never yours.

🌿 你知道吗？

在古代，最伟大的领导者——学者、官员、将领，
并不是因财富或权力被记住……

✨ 许多人后来被尊为仙人 / 神明。

为什么？
因为他们用自己的位置去：
👉 提升众生的生活
👉 守护百姓
👉 创造长远的善与福

🌟 你是否具备这样的“格局与福报”？
让我们诚实地反思：

👥 你所带领的人
你的员工、客户、民众，甚至你的孩子：
👉 是否懂得什么是“德行”？
👉 是否从你的行为中看到德行的实践？

他们的生活，是否因为你而变得更好——
还是在压力与高生活成本中感到窒息？

💖 你领导中的“慈悲”
你的制度与决策中，有没有善意与关怀？

🐾 你是否对动物有怜悯之心？
🌱 你是否保护环境？

还是一切只围绕着利润与增长？

🌍 你对未来的影响
你的领导，不只影响今天。

👉 你是否为下一代留下善与价值？
👉 你是否用你的权力去支持有意义的善业？

⚖️ 领导的真正衡量标准
领导力，不只是KPI或纸上的成绩——

👉 而是有多少人的生活，因你而真正变好。

请诚实问自己：
👉 你帮助了多少人？是每天都在发生的吗？
（不包括你自己和你的家人）

🌿 最后的问题

✨ 你是否正在创造一个——
让别人感恩的生命与遗产？

✨ 它是否符合“天道”的价值——
慈悲、爱与对万物的包容？

🌟 因为最终……
地位会消失，权力会过去，

👉 但德行，会留下。

⚠️ 关于冥想与灵修的提醒

深度冥想——尤其是偏灵性或进阶的修行方式——并不适合所有人。
它可能带来混乱、情绪失衡，甚至严重的心理困扰。

在深度修行过程中，一些体验会显得非常真实、令人信服。
你可能感觉被引导、被选中、与众不同。
但并非所有体验都应当照单全收——
👉 必须具备分辨力。

即使你今天拥有地位、名气或财富，
也不代表你可以跳过修行的根基。
真正的修行，是从最基础开始——
卷起袖子，谦卑服务，扫地做事，帮助他人。

不要追求名声或所谓的“灵性地位”。
若真有召唤，自然会来——
也可能一生都不会来。

在庙宇或神明之处服务，是一种福分与荣幸，
绝不可掉以轻心。
责任真实存在，德行与操守更为重要。

诵经与修行，传统上多由受过训练的修行者进行，
其本意是为了利益众生——
👉 而非为个人私欲。

神明、佛陀、菩萨、天使——
皆以慈悲为本，服务一切众生。

因此，仪式、祈祷与诵念，
应更多地向外——
去帮助、去祝福、去利益他人。

👉 在用灵修来提升自己之前，请三思。
神明要你做的，是把饭分给他人，
而不是只盛进自己的碗里。

🌿 关键的问题

若某种“指引”自称来自神明，请问自己：
👉 它是否让你更善良、更平静、更脚踏实地？
👉 它是在减少你的我执，还是放大你的自我？

真正的指引，会带来谦卑、清明与慈悲——
而不是恐惧、混乱或优越感。

🌿 Getting Along with Loved Ones

1. Kinship — Family Relationships
A happy life includes learning how to get along well with loved ones.

When conflicts arise, speak kindly, respect differences, and support one another.
Try to see things from each other’s point of view.

👉 Kindness, respect, and peace matter more than winning.
In many situations, it is better to protect the relationship than to win every argument.

Sometimes, compromise is wiser than constant bickering.
For example, can you accept someone being a little less neat—rather than insisting they change and arguing all the time?

At the same time, wisdom is needed.
Do not spoil someone excessively or support them in doing wrong.
Love should never mean helping someone commit a crime or encouraging harmful behaviour.

If serious issues arise—such as animal abuse or domestic violence—
👉 have the courage to stand up for justice and report it to the authorities.

2. Romantic Relationships
Attraction may start a relationship, but character sustains it.

Choose a partner whose values already align with yours.
You can inspire someone, but you cannot force someone to change.

A “match made in heaven” often happens when two people complement each other and share similar values.
For example, a compassionate man with an empathetic partner—both wanting to do good together.

But if one person is petty while the other is generous,
👉 conflicts are likely to arise.

Communicate openly and discuss differences honestly.
Develop good values, kindness, and responsibility—and lead by example.

👉 Actions speak louder than words.

3. When Relationships End
Understand that all relationships have a natural lifespan.

When together, love and respect each other sincerely.
If the time comes to part, do so with dignity and wish each other well.

Be mature and sensible.
If one person loses feelings, there is no need to be offended.
Sometimes, it simply means it is time for both to move on.

👉 When one door closes, another opens.

Take the experience as a lesson. Learn, reflect, and grow.
Future relationships will improve when you understand these lessons and avoid repeating unhealthy patterns.

4. Choosing the Right Partner
If you hope to find someone capable and of good character,
ask yourself:
👉 Why would such a person choose you?

People often choose someone equal to them,
or someone who inspires them to become better.

👉 You can choose to become that person.

A good relationship is not just about love—
it is about shared values, mutual respect,
and growing into better people together.

🌿 The Key to Happiness in Life

One of the most important keys to a happy, healthy, and long life
is having positive, high-quality relationships.

These connections—with family, friends, and the community—
help buffer life’s stresses and strongly support both physical and mental health.

👉 Invest time and effort in building and nurturing meaningful relationships.

At the same time, develop your virtues.
Let good character bring you a blessed life—
surrounded by good people and the grace of the divine. ✨

1. 亲情｜家庭关系
幸福的人生，离不开学会与家人好好相处。
当发生冲突或争执时，要以温和的语气沟通，尊重彼此的不同，并给予支持。
尝试站在对方的角度思考问题。

👉 善良、尊重与和气，比争赢更重要。
很多时候，守住关系，比赢得争论更重要。

有时，适当的包容比不断争吵更有智慧。
例如：能否接受对方稍微不那么整洁，而不是一味要求改变、争执不断？

但同时也要有原则与智慧。
不要过度纵容，也不要支持对方做错事。
爱，绝不等于帮助他人犯罪或鼓励不良行为。

若出现严重问题——如虐待动物或家庭暴力，
👉 要有勇气为正义发声，并向有关当局举报。

2. 爱情｜伴侣关系
吸引力可以开始一段关系，但品格才能维持它。

选择一个与你价值观相近的人。
你可以影响一个人，但无法强迫一个人改变。

所谓“天作之合”，往往是两个人价值观相近、彼此互补。
例如：一位有慈悲心的男士，配上一位有同理心的伴侣，
两人都愿意一起行善与成长。

但若一方计较、一方大方，
👉 冲突往往难以避免。

学会坦诚沟通，正视差异。
培养良好的价值观、善良与责任感，以身作则——
👉 因为行动，永远胜过言语。

3. 当关系结束时
要明白，所有的关系都有它的阶段与期限。

在一起时，真诚相待、用心去爱。
当缘分已尽，也要体面分开，彼此祝福。

保持成熟与理智。
当一方不再有感情时，不必愤怒或受伤。
有时，这只是提醒彼此：是时候各自前行。

👉 一扇门关闭，另一扇门就会开启。

把经历当作学习，从中成长。
当你理解这些功课，并不再重复错误，
未来的关系自然会更好。

4. 选择对的伴侣
若你希望遇到有能力、有品格的人，
也请先问自己：
👉 为什么这样的人会选择你？

人们往往会选择与自己相当的人，
或能激励自己变得更好的人。

👉 你可以选择成为那样的人。

一段好的关系，不只是爱情——
而是共同的价值观、相互的尊重，
以及一起成长、成为更好的人。

🌿 幸福人生的关键

最后，幸福、健康、长寿的重要关键之一，
就是拥有正向且高质量的人际关系。

这些连接——与家人、朋友、社群——
能缓冲生活压力，并大大支持身心健康。

👉 请用心经营这些关系，投入时间与精力。

同时，培养你的德行。
让好品格，为你带来福报——
吸引善人相伴，得神明护佑。 ✨